How should i my 9 year old daughter?

my daughter (age 9) has always bean a impulsive rebel. I have tried many different ways of discipline time outs grounding removal of privileges none have worked. Last week she was acting up and i ed her. for the first time she shut up and did as she was told. as works on her i am trying to find out how to properly her as i love her a lot can you tell me in detail the appropriate position clothing implement and number of stokes and anything else that i should know