I can never Get an ...........?

Ok, here goes nothing, I've never had an , I'm so mastered faking it so I don't know when I am faking it or not. I mustarbate now and again and without any toys I always enjoy a full exploxive so I know its certainly not a medical problem however my biggest concern is that, on the first round I get all and ready, and obviously wet, but when I get back the second time i stay dry all the way thru, so it can be quite painfull / unconfortable and unpleasant and worse if the guy takes long to actually ***. even after I stay dry for hours...this is a serious concern.please answer .....I love and I enjoy the process(like ), even when I stay dry, its just I wish I could avoid ...